Hi everyone!
I need some outside perspectives to help me decide what I want to do about my bachelorette party.
MY MOH has been planning a trip to the river (3-6 hour drive for most bridesmaids) for about a month. My FSIL (also a bridesmaid) just told her that she won't be able to go on that trip because she can't afford it. From what I've gathered, it is about $125 for her part of the airbnb. Apparently she would have to put in on a credit card, along with attire for her and her husband, both of whom are in the wedding party.
There is an alternative option-- my MOH has a lake house that is about a 5 hour drive for everyone. Obviously, we could stay there for free. Every bridesmaid that I've talked to says that they want me to do what makes me happy, but I get the distinct impression that everyone's lives would be easier if I moved the party to the lake house. I'm told there is a lot of fun stuff to do around Lake Granbury. I wanted a river trip because we always go to our family's lake house (not the same one, obviously).
Should I give in and change where we go?
I've started to realize that what I want out of the trip is to be together with friends, hang out in/on the water & drink, eat some junk food and enjoy my time with friends. Does it matter where that happens.
To sum it up, I'm afraid I'll feel guilty for being stubborn and missing the point of the trip if we go to the river, but I'm worried that I'm just being a pushover if I change to the cheaper option because it's easier for everyone else.
Any help or advice?