Bachelorette Party Fail - Should i even bother?

So over the last few months leading up to my wedding, I’ve had a whole lot thrown my way that I wasn’t expecting. My dad nearly died, I had a friend actually pass away, I had a BM drop out, my FH is most likely having a GM drop out, we had a last minute catering-switch less than 2 months prior, and my FH and I had to move three months before the wedding due to emergency circumstances. I’ve lost over a month of wedding planning and now my MOH just told me she won’t be able to make it to my bachelorette party due to an ongoing medical emergency, which is totally fine and I understand. But two of my other BMs most likely can’t make it and I believe only 2-3 other people have said they can make it. Due to moving, I’ve also had to scale my plans WAY back due to having a smaller budget than I had originally anticipated. I just feel like since the move, the whole “bachelorette” thing is a total fail and just falling apart and I don’t know that I even want to deal with having one at this point. I feel like it won’t be fun for me with all of the stress surrounding it. Having a lame bachelorette is not really the tone I want to set right before my wedding either. Should I just put up, shut up, and go out or give up on it?