Bachelorette Party Ideas?

In the end, you're the bride and what you want is all that matters. So if you see what's being planned isn't what you want, then I'd suggest stepping in. It's your one chance! Do it the way YOU want it to be.

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I think its kinda ridiculous for someone to say if your BP doesnt plan your bachelorette party you dont get one. I always thought that was dumb and really outdated. That being said, I also dont think theres anything wrong with helping your MOH plan your bachelorette either. Im helping my BP plan mine, my girls are spread across three different states and most of them dont know each other... Its easier for me to communicate with everyone and I can judge what people can afford and what is easier for everyone involved. I can text people individually and ask budget and all that fun stuff. I also get hotel discounts for my work so I have to be the one to book our rooms and stuff.

I would communicate with your MOH what you were thinking, while you would have fun just hanging out with her and having a low key night you thought that maybe you could involve your bridesmaids and mothers too. Maybe you can do a large group dinner or movie night, something that is low key like your MOH was suggesting but involves more of your bridal party. Maybe its possible that she wants something smaller because its what she can afford. Maybe if your BP is okay with paying for their part of stuff she would be more open to something larger? I think its fair to say that in this day, BM kinda expect to pay for these kind of things (at least I have for every wedding I have ever been in) as long as you take in to consideration their budgets.