Bachelorette party in Vegas?

Personally, I think destination bach parties are WAY over the top and an unnecessary expense. So I'd ask your hosts to have it locally or at least somewhere that isn't a destination for everyone.

I would go. Just don't expect everyone of your friends to be able to take time off or go at all. My MOH has also mentioned Vegas. I think it would be fun.

It's up to you! If your wedding party wants to go and wants to pay for it, then go for it.

My friends are spread out on the east coast, and we always do a destination weekend bach party - so this is the norm for my group. I went to Vegas with 10 girls for my bachelorette and we had an awesome time! I was also very creative about contributing to costs and had a few servers hand me the group check directly so I could pay before anyone else noticed

I'm one of 8 BM for my friends weddings and her BP is in Vegas in July. It's something she really wanted to do and told all BM and a few other people she's inviting that she is completely understands if not everyone can make it. The MOH has an email chain with everyone sharing the details and is mostly in charge of booking, collecting money, etc.

To give you an idea- we are staying at the Flamingo.

It's $1422/3 rooms = $474 per room

$474/4 nights = $118.50 per night

$118.50/4 people = $29.62 /per person

Its totaling $30 people per night for the hotel, for 4 nights. Airfare looks pricey now but should go down in a month or two as it gets closer. We are bringing and buying at the store alcohol and snacks to reduce cost. We all agreed to go to a show which is about $60. There's obviously airfare, food, drinks, getting to/from airport, and gambling costs. Plus if you gamble, drinks are free. I've been to Vegas twice and food/drink was expensive.

Because I'm a BM, even though she said she would be okay with people not going, I felt like I really should. I'm excited to go and it will be fun! We had plenty of advance notice so I had time to save but I will be honest and say that it is something on my mind as its getting closer thinking about the money and figuring out care for my son. But its also because I have five weddings this year of all very close friends. Still wouldn't miss it! It's not something I would want to do for mine but it fits her perfectly.

You and FH should go/do what you want to do. Vegas would be fun and it sounds like your BP would definitely go!

ETA - We leaving Sunday morning and coming back Thursday. This is maybe going to eliminate weekend costs, not sure? Us girls were given the option of May dates or July dates, both Sunday-Thursday. I would have preferred a weekend so that I didn't have to take off of work but maybe during the week worked better for the bride, MOH, mom or whoever. When the wedding party was announced and the MOH started the email thread, she did reach out and ask which dates were people *not* available in 2017, so they could coordinate the BP and shower.

@Lynnie Great idea for helping contribute to costs! I definitely wouldn't want my BP to be stuck paying for the whole trip.

@Valerie we would most likely stay at the Flamingo also, so the breakdown of the hotel cost is much appreciated! Thanks!

I think Valerie gave you great insight.

I just went for a Bachelorette weekend in vegas last year and they rented a Air BnB and it was REALLY fun and inexpensive when it was all broken down. The bride had a pull with drinks and bbq by day and strip fun and shows and clubs at night.

I wouldn't worry about what they can afford if they want to go crank some numbers and see what is doable. I'm also in favor with Lynnie as I'm good for picking up a tab or two myself.

My BP will be in Vegas and my WP is honestly thrilled. They are looking at it like an excuse to take a vacation (most live in town with me). Whatever you do, just don't stress that it's required or anything. Say that you completely understand if any of your girls need to skip in order to make the wedding.

those of you coming here though, please keep in mind that Casino/Hotels on the Strip have started charging for parking: self and valet. Prices are stupid high, so if you can afford to uber/lyft/cab from the airport to your hotel, and anywhere you want to go, it might be better for you.

ETA: so far it looks like just valet is charging for now, but here's the info for

Caesars properties (including Flamingo): https://www.caesars.com/parking

MGM Properties: http://www.mgmresorts.com/parking/

I had my Bach in Vargas - it was wonderful and I'm so appreciative to the girls that planned my trip. My BM planned everything and we're meticulous for staying within a set budget. We stayed at the Mirage, saw a cirque show, brunched at the Wynn, went to pool parties and out and about. Vegas actually worked for all of us considering the majority of my bridal party lives in different state. They all planned far in advance to ensure decent prices for airfare and lodging. If it's something everyone can agree on and within their budgets - do it! You won't regret it

Thanks for all the feedback! I am definitely leaning more towards Vegas, now and will reach out to my BM's to put together a budget and make sure it's doable. Appreciate y'all's help

My DW is in LV and the Bach party is 2 days before the wedding. We're doing a 1-day event at the Rio - spa, dinner, Chippendales, VooDoo lounge. And then we all go back to our respective accommodations. If you or a friend are locals, you can get decent deals at that property.