I’ve been to at least 20+ bachelorettes and I recently had my own so I feel well versed on what to expect... until now. I’m posting this bc I have no clue how to handle this or communicate with the MOH without hurting her feelings.
So we are doing a destination bachelorette party this year, 7 girls total paying for the place. We were told upfront it’ll be about $1kpp for the weekend which is usually correct bc of flights, food, transportation, etc. Well, we are getting closer and finding out that $1k is just the cost she’s asking for the house, gift bags, decorations, bride gift. Our Airbnb is $500pp so the other $500 is going towards our own gift bags which she said will be about $110pp and then the rest is decor for the house. She sent pictures and she’s buying like candle holders and other house decor for a house that’s already stunningly decorated. Then there is balloons, flowers she wants to buy. Then we have to get food/drinks on top of that. She hasn’t shared what she’s spent and on what but we all have to pay for it. A few of the other girls have already talked about bailing bc of costs.
Idk how to deal with this. She’s a super sweet girl and I don’t want to hurt her feelings by trying to reel her back and try to get a feel for the budget.
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