I am the MOH for a wedding this year. The bachelorette party is supposed to be taking place on a cruise that sets sail in 8 days. I have told the bride my reservations for potentially not going, and she is understandably upset. Unfortunately though, she still wants to go, and is making me feel incredibly guilty for not. Using words like " I can't believe when my MOH would bail on my once in a lifetime bachelorette party for a big what if" Now please keep in mind, I am the one that has planned this entire cruise, and I am the last person that wants this to be cancelled or rescheduled. I am just trying to make the most logical decision based on the information that has arose.
Am I wrong for not wanting to go a cruise that could potentially infect vulnerable or susceptible people, and/or being quarantined on a boat for 14+ days?
Brides, and other Bridal members what is your opinion? I am genuinely upset that she would even put me in a position like the and make me feel so bad.