So my MOH planned a simple BP. Dinner, then to her house for games, drinks and a sleepover. She asked me for guest list so I chose mine and FHs sisters (BP), and a couple close friends. Invites were phone calls.
Sticky part: most of my friends are lesbians, so when inviting I asked them if they would come hang out alone, since it was a BP. Yes, I've met their gfs but we're not close like I am with the ones I invited. Plus i assume this is how BP works. They all were fine with it, saying that's what BPs are so no biggie. My sister insists that her gf be invited.... she says she will have no fun without her.
So now I'm wondering is it rude to invite my friends and ask they don't bring a date? I thought BPs were this way. Am I being offensive? I know when FH and I go out for others BPs we obvs go stag because the other isn't invited. HELP! I don't want to be offensive!