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Sangele
Master April 2016

Bachelorette Party......who's had a stripper?

Sangele, on January 15, 2016 at 4:36 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 22

Ladies, I'm 75% sure there will be a stripper as part of my party. My BM who is coordinating it,ran some ideas by me and stripper was on the list. I said yes as long as everyone else invited is comfortable with it. It's not a must have, but I do think it would be fun.

So my question is....for those of you who have had one, what was your timeline like? The original plan was to have a nice dinner and then bar hop. Where would the entertainment go? I've never been to a bach party that involved one, so I really don't know?

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Latest activity by Zoe , on January 15, 2016 at 7:31 PM
  • Leanne
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    Leanne ·
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    They show up, they do their thing and leave. We had one at a friends party and he was there maybe 60 minutes.

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  • Sqwiggy
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    We got a hotel room. Ordered pizza. Stripper showed up. We paid extra for the full monty. He then took a dump in the bathroom and asked if he could take some pizza with him. Personally I prefer going to a male review show. And it's fun embarrassing the Bride onstage.

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  • Jessi
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    OMG Sqwiggy noooooo! LOL

    We went to a drag show at mine at it was SO fun.

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  • Sqwiggy
    VIP April 2016
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    Are you in Chicago? I only ask because clearly you cheer for the wrong team. Seriously I've done 3 B-parties in Chicago so I can give you more info.

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  • Sangele
    Master April 2016
    Sangele ·
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    I am in Chicago! We were going to go to Austin, but the price was getting ridiculous. So far for dinner, we're going to Mercadito. My friend lives at Aqua, so were thinking that's where we'll have the stripper come. What's more classy than getting a lap dance over looking the skyline? And let's disagree on the baseball team, but agree on the hawky team?

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
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    OMG Sqwiggy!!!!!!! ewww

    Are you guys pre-gaming before dinner? My suggested timeline would be for there to be an organized pregame before dinner and the stripper to show up then. Definitely give some ample time for you guys to have a few drinks first, I'd be way more awkward if I was sober for a stripper Smiley smile

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  • Sangele
    Master April 2016
    Sangele ·
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    Yes to drinks before stripper! I'm just worried to have dinner before and then be too full to be thrown around! Hahaha!

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  • Possum
    Master December 2015
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    My friend had one at hers. He grossed me out and I'm 90% sure he was on drugs. The only reason I was at all ok with him being there was one of the other girls was a police officer complete with weapon. He was a creeper. He licked whipped cream off us and I was generally turned off by the whole thing.

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  • Sqwiggy
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    Go Hawks!

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  • Sqwiggy
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    We're going to the Naughty little cabaret show. 26 W Division

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  • Sqwiggy
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    Sqwiggy ·
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    Check out VIP Bachelorette

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  • Sangele
    Master April 2016
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    Thanks Swiggy!

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  • Sqwiggy
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    Are you coming to the social in the 23rd

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  • Amber Erin
    Master August 2016
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    @JCloves ew no. Don't touch me. Don't lick me lol.

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  • Sangele
    Master April 2016
    Sangele ·
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    I was actually just looking for that post! I will RSVP as soon as I get home from work Smiley smile

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  • Reggie
    Master September 2015
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    I like the idea of having the stripper at the pre-game part of the night. That way you have the rest of the night to do what you want without having to worry about being somewhere at a certain time. Plus, if anyone isn't ok with seeing a stripper they could always arrive after that part of the night was over. Just be sure to have the host tell everyone that that is the plan for the night and what time he will be gone and then it's up to each girl whether they want to be there for that bit or not.

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  • FFW
    Master August 2016
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    I was set on having my bach in Miami (I'm from Florida, most of my BMs, my MOH, and friends still live there) we weighed so many options (beach house, cruise, hotel, move it a little further north in florida so some ppl won't have to travel) but there was no way we could get a place or time that worked for more than 3 ppl... EVER. So my MOH decided to do the bach the night after my shower in a hotel suite. So she has it set for June 4 with shower from 3-6pm, break down/clean 6-7pm, 7-9 everyone goes home/back to hotel to get ready for bach, 9:30pm bach starts (each BM is responsible to bring one dish, one bottle of alcohol or wine, and their own ones/singles). We'll probably play a couple games/eat/drink 9:30-10:30, she's going to see if she can rent a portable pole for a private lesson for the girls in attendance 10:30-11:30, then stripper from 11:30-12:30. It would have ideal/great to go bar or club hopping after this but my hometown (whether the shower is) has gotten such a bad rep for being unsafe to go out so sadly it will probably end there. We are only expecting about 15 ladies (the 9 BMs, the MOH, me, and about 4 friends who will be in town for the shower but aren't in the wedding).

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  • F
    Master December 2015
    Fiona ·
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    We went to a club that had males and females. The female side enjoyed having all ladies in the VIP room for once.

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  • FutureMrsMitchell
    Expert February 2016
    FutureMrsMitchell ·
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    Following this because this my B-party plan

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  • FutureMrsMitchell
    Expert February 2016
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    My BMs are letting everyone know the party at the restaurant so they can decide to join the party bus or take their own vehicle and leave after the bar hop. So we will end the night at the strip club

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