Bachelorette party with just bachelorettes?

Who cares what anyone else thinks? If you want it, do it.

I know brides that have organized their own bachelorette. Do you have any girls to have just even a girls night out with? If not then you two have something or maybe have your events the night before the big day?

View Quoted Comment We don’t really have other girls to hang out with, unfortunately. I just don’t know if it’s even a bachelorette party at that point? I’m worried that doing it would just accentuate the fact that I don’t have friends?

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Oh I am sorry. Well how many people will attend the wedding? You could have a nice rehearsal party the day before. I know my FSIL had a Jack and Jill party basically a co-ed bachelorette.

View Quoted Comment Ours would kind of be a Jack-and-Jill, except we are both brides and we have nobody else to invite? Our wedding party are our siblings, and it will be hard enough to even get them to show up to the wedding itself. They’re not mean; they’re just not that interested.

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Oh hi Audrey! LOL. I know remember you. Your new avatar had me confused ha ha. Isee your predicament and I am sorry but I still think you two can just have a ladies night out even just you two but if you have non wedding party members that you get along with I say do something the day before.

I say go for it! Have fun! It could be like your last unmarried date!

View Quoted Comment Yeah, I changed it to my cat haha. Thank you for the feedback!

View Quoted Comment Aww, I like thinking of it like that! Thanks!

My bachelorette party included guys since some of my best friends are men. So you can invite your guy friends and do a mixed gender bachelorette party!

View Quoted Comment Unfortunately we don’t really have guys friends either. That sounds like a blast though!

I'm in the same boat as you. My mom and Matron of Honor live on the other side of the country so I won't get a bachelorette party or bridal shower. I feel like I'm missing out. We are having a huge engagement party and my mom is coming out for it which is awesome, but my MOH can't.


I would say there's nothing you can do to change it so ensure you don't dwell on it. We aren't having a reception here where we live so there's no Wedding cake tasting, but my fiance and I are still going to cake taste!

Sounds like your FW and you will have to go big then! #lastflingbeforethering ! Feel free to splurge and go all out. If you usually go to the movies for date nights, don't go for your bach party. If you're go to is Italian food, then go out for Mexican. Treat yourselves since this is your night!

View Quoted Comment Hahaha, I love this idea