Hi all! So my wedding is in October and we have foregone bridesmaids and groomsmen for simplicity's sake.
The one part that has been challenging is adhering to pre wedding event etiquette. I am fully aware of the rules against throwing your own pre wedding parties & that people are not obligated to throw them for me.
My future MIL and SIL have offered to throw a shower and/or bachelorette. My mom and aunt have offered the same. I do not want a shower, but would very much enjoy a girls night/bachelorette party. However, I feel like having a parent figure throw your bachelorette is not usually done? Is this rude?
I have one sister who is making a toast and being super helpful for all wedding stuff, but did not offer to throw a bachelorette (nor is she obligated to!). My local best friend asked about what I wanted for a bachelorette a while ago, and I gave a pretty vague answer and said "oh we'll figure something out" and it never came up again.
So between these groups of people...do I let the moms plan me a bachelorette? Do I try to get my sister or best friend to get involved? Or just skip these events and wait for the wedding to celebrate
Thanks in advance!
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