Bachelorette party

If you can pull it off/have the confidence to wear it more power to you! Personally not my style and would never wear it, but if it’s what you want go for it

I mean it looks obnoxious for when you have to pee. But you do you, go for it!

I think if that's really your style and you feel confident and sexy in it, then go for it. I wouldn't, but you do you, boo! A friend of mine wore a kind of tie-on butterfly type top, a tutu and crazy unicorn eyelashes for her hens, so basically the bar for 'too far' is different for everyone!

I have to ask this, because I am SO curious though... does it have a nude underlayer, or is it totally sheer? If totally sheer, will you wear black knickers with it? Nude? I must know how you plan to style this thing!

View Quoted Comment Thanks Rosie! No girl! There is no nude under layer! It is sheer! I’ve actually worn this out with a black bralette underneath and either a skirt or leggings! But for my bachelorette party I’m thinking about wearing it with just pasties and a strappy black thong like this one! What do you think?https://mobile.yoox.com/us/48245049ve/item?gender=d&kpid=us-48245049ve-4-pe21&adtype=pla&tp=206535&gclid=cjwkcajwo4mibhbseiwakgzxoi7xo_vmwtwvfdqjgomlknlj2riy8sly8xpkxw8yoim7z_taalnwxxoc62uqavd_bwe&gclsrc=aw.ds#cod10=48245049ve&sizeid=-1

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Oh damn! You're a lot braver than I am, lol! I love your confidence! I personally would triple check just how sheer that thong is with the catsuit before venturing out, especially under different lighting. Then again, if you're comfortable with being able to see right through to skin then go for it!

Oohhhhh I like this, especially with some cute heels!

I feel that this outfit is more of a private thing than a going out thing. I feel it's disrespectful to your future spouse for you to wear something like this unless this is how you normally dress and isn't out of your norm. You're basically going out to party in lingerie...

View Quoted Comment I mean it’s not basically lingerie, it is lingerie. I mean this honestly, OP, depending on where you’re going for your bach, they may not let you in if you’re wearing a lingerie catsuit with pasties and a thong.


I am all about the fun and fantasy and sex appeal, but I do think there’s a line for even nightlife businesses and what they consider clothes.

I hope you’ll be wearing at least a leotard underneath! Otherwise I feel like an outfit like that needs to stay in the bedroom with your fiancé!

It's lingerie. I guess it depends on how your boundaries work as a couple. Also I presume it depends on where you're going and if there will be kids around. To me it comes across as very "look at ME". If you want that kind of attention well ok then.

View Quoted Comment Well it won’t necessarily be that thong, just a thong like that, ideally one with decent coverage in the front with an ultra strappy back!

I think wear what you want but it's too far for me. You can dress sexy without showing your entire body.

View Quoted Comment Hi Samantha! It’s not really very far out of my norm! We’ve gone out together with me wearing similar outfits, like a semi sheer mesh dress with a nude thong and pasties underneath or me wearing a mesh bodysuit with a black bra! So he knows I’m doing this and it’s not a big shock!

View Quoted Comment Hi Kylie! I hear you! I’m actually going to be wearing a blazer dress over it when I’m out in public. The party will be in a private room at a club so it will just be me and my girls in there!

View Quoted Comment Hi Jacks! The party itself is in a private setting and there won’t be any kids there! (Who has kids at a bachelorette party?) And maybe it does come across as very “look at ME!” But it is MY bachelorette party!

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You didn't say where you'd be going. If at a restaurant I thought there might be random kids there. I didn't mean you would invite kids to the bachelorette.

This isn’t something I would personally feel comfortable in, but the outfit you described sounds cute (especially entering with the blazer). Idk why people are outfit shaming… people go out in lingerie all the time. A cute bralette with cutoffs? Slinky cami teddy? I think people are overreacting a bit. You do you.

In a house/ cottage, some where private, it depends on the comfort level of guests.
In a commercial place, I do not think it is appropriate. I would like to see men's Bach move away from this awful style, not see women move toward it.

It's a little much for me, but I think if you have something to cover up the most revealing parts while out in public, then wear the full outfit in your private room with just your party, then it should be fine! If this is around what you normally wear on a night out and your partner knows that, then you do you boo and go on with your bad, confident self!

View Quoted Comment Thanks Cool! There’s sooo much outfit shaming out there! Just like there’s so much single mother shaming! And lingerie as outerwear is here to stay! And I’ve worn those outfits you describe! I’ll keep doing me and you keep doing your wonderful self!