I’m a bridesmaid for a wedding in May. The bride just recently texted all of us and wanted ideas for her bachelorette party, and as of right now there is still no confirmation on where or when this weekend is taking place. I’ve been picking up weekend shifts at the hospital and already have several other trips planned this spring. I messaged her individually to let her know I may not be able to make it due to my schedule and also due to cost (she wants to go to Vegas—flights are at least $500 from what I’ve seen so far).
She was totally okay with this and I do plan to contribute something to her weekend even if it’s from afar. However, I’ve started to plan my bachelorette party with my maid and matron of honor for September. I’m definitely going to invite her but I feel weird doing it right now because I’m not going to her bachelorette weekend.
I did ask her if her or her fiancé’s family was hosting a bridal or engagement party and was thinking I could attend that since I probably won’t be able to go to the bachelorette but she said there’s not any plans for that.
What are y’alls thoughts/advice?! Thanks in advance
