Bachelorette Party

I was a part of mine because they were kind of nervous about surprising me and wanted to do what I wanted

I pretty much planned my own haha. I only have two bridesmaids and I like planning things. So now I get to do what I want haha

View Quoted Comment I kind of wanted to plan my own bc I don’t want anyone to feel some type of way about planning it for me 😩😪

My MOH hasn't really started planning yet but so far she has asked for my guidance on generally what I wanted to do so it won't be a total surprise

I think me and my FH are going to have a joint bachelor / bachelorette party. We're thinking about going down to Miami for the weekend with our wedding party and renting a yacht to party.

View Quoted Comment Omg this sounds AMAZIng!!!! I wish we could afford this !!!!

View Quoted Comment My FH suggested a joint party too, which I think will be a blast. As an added bonus, it’ll be a chance for the WP to meet and hang out before the wedding!

I’ve given my MOHs some ideas, but FH also suggested he would like to do a joint party so we’ll see. I’m sure there will be surprises, I just have to not be a control freak! My MOH wanted to be a party planner when she was younger, so I’ll just have to trust her.

View Quoted Comment So do you think it’s ok to plan your own if you wanted to ?😩

I was sort of part of the planning. I chose what to do which was a spa day then casino at night for dinner/drinks/dancing. They planned all the small details and everything in between.

View Quoted Comment I think it’s fine to plan your own, people tend to frown upon planning your own gift getting parties like showers. My other concern would be budgeting, my MOH told me if they all decide Vegas they’re covering me, but if I decided I wanted to go to Vegas I would fully expect to pay my own flight and cover the hotel room. Just like with dresses and stuff, if there are people you want to be there make sure the budget works. I look at it this way though, you’re planning the whole wedding, the bachelorette is meant to be a celebration for you that you can just go to and have a good time.

I am planning to organize it myself but my sweet friend recently offered to help! We’ll probably do it together and I will let her collect rsvps, book the air bnb, etc.

View Quoted Comment I love this idea! My fiancé and I were talking about possibly doing a joint party as well. The yacht renting is what’s making me consider 🤔😂

My fiancé and I plan on planning our own. Mainly because we don’t want to burden anyone with another bill, as all of our friends have children and obligations. We are asking them to rent/buy their attire for the wedding. So that was more than enough in my book. Some are also coming from out of town as well, so that plays a part as well. The other reason being im just extra & have so many ideas I want to do lol. I just want it to be as perfect as can be and everyone enjoy their time. Don’t bust your brain on it go with your heart! I’m sure they won’t be mad and will still enjoy being apart of the process. ❤️

View Quoted Comment This is a great idea to have them still feel apart of it with helping by doing other tasks. Thank you for this!

I’ve been a part of planning the location and the date. That is all. They have mentioned some things we may do, but I’m not sure what has actually been planned. We are going to Savannah, GA for a long weekend.

I was just MOH for my best friend and I think I’m going to follow her lead as well. She told me where(Las Vegas) and what she wanted which was a nice restaurant, a show and a spa morning. I did the rest by picking out the restaurants, shows and planned the itinerary of when it would all take place.

I told my moh to handle it. I want to be surprised.

View Quoted Comment You’re welcome! I just noticed we’re almost date twins. Ours is June 28,2020. 🤗

Mine is a surprise. I've given guidelines, which most of my party seems to be following? (My bridesman apparently wants to do multiple parties, which I am pushing back on. I'm grateful, but... I can't take every day off work between now and the wedding!)

I asked for a ballgame, or the Ren Faire, or a Broadway show.

Two of our party already took us to a special ballgame where FH's favorite player retired, and I happen to know what FH's is this weekend (well, I know the TYPE of thing it is), so I think mine might be a Broadway show?