Bachelorette party!

Hey everyone! So my brother is my man of honor, so he’s planning all my exciting parties. He’s very extra which I love. However my bridal shower is this Sunday and he’s spent almost $1300 and isn’t done. He’s a server(a very good one) he makes great money however I don’t expect him to blow it all on me. So my bachelorette party is on the 25th of September. We originally were going to do a pole dancing class and go to dinner and he hired a painter to come to his house and we’re all going to go back and paint inappropriate things 😂. I talked him out of pole dancing because it’s $400 for an hour which is the minimum time and we only have like 3-4 people besides myself for that part. So I talked him out of it because of pricing but now he wants to replace it with something else crazy. Hasn’t pitched his new ideas yet. Any ideas for a low key but fun night that won’t be super expensive? He’s all for me giving him ideas! I don’t like people blowing money on me no matter what the circumstances, however I appreciate it. I’d be fine with getting dinner and staying in and playing games.