My childhood best friend is my MOH. I was always told the MOH is suppose to plan the bridal shower and the bachelorette party. So far my grandma is hosting my bridal shower and I have no bachelorette party planned and I have like 20 days till my wedding. Im kinda disappointed and a little jealous because my fiances friends have his whole bachelor party planned. I was hoping I didn't have to plan it myself. At this point idk if i'm going to even say or do anything about it. But if I decide to... should I just plan it myself or ask her to step up and plan it?