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Ann
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Bachelorette party

Ann, on December 17, 2019 at 1:40 AM Posted in Parties and Events 0 5
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My fiancé’s sister & her 2 daughters (aged 20&22) along with another niece who is (18) will be apart of our wedding. Thing is it appreciate to invite them to my bachelorette party? I by no means want a penis themed party or anything like that and all my bridesmaid know this. It’s seriously a girls weekend, with games, a few clubs, sitting pool side and of course drinking. The two younger ones won’t be able to drink (yes I know you don’t have to drink to have fun) but some clubs you can’t even get into unless you are 21 so I would feel bad leaving them back at the hotel while we are out having fun. And there mom is coming but I want her to let lose and have fun as well, and not be worried about her kids. I also can’t JUST invite the 22 year old cause then the other two girls feelings will be hurt. I’m seriously so lost, I would like to have them there but not sure it will work out!

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Latest activity by Sherry, on December 17, 2019 at 2:13 PM
  • Jeanie
    Super February 2020
    Jeanie ·
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    You need to decide what kind of bachelorette party you want. You can totally have one where you don’t go to any clubs or any place else that is 21+. However, if that’s what you want to do, don’t avoid your ideas because of the younger girls. You can always do fun things in the afternoon with them and a big group dinner before going out. It’s not your fault they’re not old enough to go certain places, and while it’s kind of you to consider their feelings, it would be very selfish of them to be mad at you if they can’t go. If you really think it’s going to be a problem if you only invite the 22 year old, don’t invite any of them. I would ask their mom what she thinks is the best idea, because she may not think it’s an appropriate party for them to go to either way.
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  • Kristen
    Master November 2020
    Kristen ·
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    I would do a variety of events to where they can come to some. I am thinking to do a day of events like maybe brunch, a wine tasting, a night out at a restaurant because my friends have kids and what not plus I only want a small group for the evening dinner personally. I feel that you can do something during the day where they can come (brunch/ spa/ cooking class, etc...) and the night activities for the more grown up crew.

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  • Catherine
    VIP November 2019
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    My step daughter was one of my bridesmaids. (13) much different than your underage girls. but we did one day where she could go and one day where it was 21 and over only. we wanted to make sure we included her but obviously still enjoyed a bachelorette weekend. her mom came in place of her on the 21 and older trip lol we did a wine train/tour on Saturday and then ax throwing and fun around the city on the Sunday .

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  • Erin
    Devoted September 2021
    Erin ·
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    Hi date twin! I would still invite them, they can have fun hanging out with everyone during the day and you’ll just have to let them know that at night they may not be able to come out with you
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  • Sherry
    Master September 2019
    Sherry ·
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    If you want them to be included, you will have to forfeit any places that only allow 21+ to get in. Otherwise, I would not invite them so you and the others can have the kind of party that you want and they aren't left behind. Maybe have 2 parties. 1 with the 21+ girls and another with the under 21 girls.

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