Bachelorette party!

Who is hosting it for you? The person hosting should check with people going about budgets first. It's a tough time financially for a lot of people, and an out of state 3 night party may be out of reach.

If I were hosting, I'd probably start a few months in advance.

View Quoted Comment I sent out a bridesmaids survey already and asked everyone’s budget for bachelorette weekend along with questions about budget for dresses and everything like that! I also asked if they were ok or not to go out of state

I posted a similar thread with the same question! Based on my opinion and the responses I got, I'd get the real prices if everyone was to attend and give it to the bridal party approx 6 months out. See if everyone is okay with the price, and I'd ask privately not in a group setting. Nobody is gonna outright say "that's way too much" in front of others.

I would be prepared to pay the difference if someone drops out, or assist your maids with the cost if you're dead set on that location. Otherwise, you set yourself up for failure!

Highly recommend using the app called "the bach"! It will help you plan a timeline based on the date, and you can add everyone to it for collaboration, chipping in payments, posting photos, etc. I love it.