Bachelorette party

Splitting by person by night is fair. It wouldn’t be right to ask the bridesmaid to pay for a night she won’t be attending even though it makes it more expensive for those who are. That’s just how these things go sometimes.

Agree with PP, it would be unfair for her to pay an extra night when she won't be there. Either cover the cost yourself or split the difference between the rest of you.

I actually kinda disagree with PPs because if you make an exception for her you’ll be expected to do the same for other.
BUT if she doesn’t come, you’ll all be paying more between you.
I would either allow it but not tell the others that they’ll be covering more costs since they won’t be happy about it, OR just tell her that the accommodation is fixed per person.

She shouldn’t pay for a night that she isn’t there. To be fair to everyone, let everyone know the new costs and see if they’d be okay with it and don’t charge the one girl for the time she’s not there.

I feel its fair she pays for her 1 night meaning aged not going to be there after day1.

She shouldn't be asked to pay for a night she isn't there.

Split it per night, per person. She shouldn't have to pay for a night that she's not even there.

Yea I agree with just letting her pay what she’s actually there for

Did she agree to two nights and then say she could only come for one, or did she say from the start she could only stay for one night? If she changed her plans, that's on her, but if not, it's reasonable for her to only pay for one night, but I don't think you should divide it exactly like that. For example: if there are 5 people paying and it's $500/night, 500÷5=100, but 500÷4=125. So if she would pay $100 for one night while everyone else pays $225 for two, which would be annoying. If instead of doing it that way you split it $1000÷9, she would pay $112 for one night and while else pays $222 for two nights. Or she pays $120 and everyone else pays $220 to make the numbers more round. I think that would go over better. Whatever you do, just be open about how it's being divided so you don't end up with drama later on.