Bachelorette party

Go for it! As long as everyone's *invited* for the whole thing, then someone else's not being able to get days off, shouldn't mean that you and some of the ladies can't go and have fun a day or two sooner.

Not selfish at all!! I say, go for it and have a ball!

The only thing I would consider is if you all planned to ride together to Nashville and you going a day early may throw that off.

I'm going to Nashville this weekend for my bachelorette, and I know we have kind of made our riding arrangements based on when everyone can leave. As long as your girls coming down after you are okay with driving separately, I say it's totally fine! For us, it's 6 hours, so my girls may be upset if they weren't planning to drive that far separately!

One of my friends did this. Her and her MOH went down to the beach 2 days early and the rest of us joined them later. That's perfectly fine. But we did not cover the bride's hotel cost for those 2 extra nights since the bachelorette didn't actually start until we all arrived on Friday.

Agreed to go for it! Probably doing the same thing with my bachelorette beach trip - a couple of us want an extra beach day but a couple others don't have the PTO, so they'll just meet us there the next day! As long as you're open about it with everyone, I don't think there'll be any hurt feelings.