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Beginner October 2020

Bachelorette Party

Rebecca, on June 23, 2020 at 5:14 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 9
Okay so, were doing a 'micro' wedding. Our guest list is just under 50 people. But this is about my bachelorette party, is it rude to invite my aunts that arent invited to the wedding to come party and eat with me for my bachelorette party? I think it would be nice to be able to celebrate with these women I love so much but just dont have the budget to have them at the actual wedding. Idk, I'm just not sure what to do.

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Latest activity by Chelsea G, on June 30, 2020 at 11:33 AM
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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I don’t think that would be appropriate to have them at a pre wedding event for a wedding they weren’t invited to. Maybe do something with them after your wedding
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    Super June 2021
    Elizabeth ·
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    Normally, you don't invite people to pre-wedding events that aren't invited to the wedding itself. You don't want there to be the perception of "tiers" of guests - like half of the guests at this event are "tier A" and made the list for the wedding and the other half are "tier B" and didn't. You wouldn't feel that way, of course, but it could seem that way to them.

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    Rebecca ·
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    That's fair. Thanks
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    Rebecca ·
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    I didnt think of it that way. Thanks
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    Judith ·
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    Marriage is not an ending. It is a beginning. Shortly after your wedding is over , start your entertaining as a married person. Invite your aunts, and others you have neglected due to wedding stuff, and have parties and do things together.
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    Super August 2020
    Alex ·
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    If the size was reduced because of COVID, all rules should be thrown out the window and you should do whatever feels right.

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    Hanna ·
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    I agree with this. If the size was reduced due to Covid, and your aunts were on the original invite list before Covid, then absolutely I don't see the problem with inviting them. If you were only having around 50 people to begin with and they didn't make the original cut, then I wouldn't invite them to any pre-wedding events.

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    Beginner October 2020
    Rebecca ·
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    Thanks everyone! I appreciate all the replies
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  • Chelsea G
    Devoted June 2021
    Chelsea G ·
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    If they're aware you had to cut due to COVID and not budget constraints/other constraints I think it would be okay to invite them. Typically though you do not invite someone to wedding events if they aren't invited. Have you considered having the wedding streamed via zoom so they can feel a part of the ceremony and big reception moments?

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