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Katelyn
Savvy November 2018

Bachelorette Party/Bridal Shower 6 Months in Advance?

Katelyn, on December 6, 2017 at 7:25 PM Posted in Parties and Events 0 12

Hey there! So my MOH just informed me that her uncles timeshare is available late May, 6 months prior to our wedding date. My bridal party is a bit spread out, but majority are in Florida (where the timeshare is). I figured I should consider it as it will lessen the financial burden of travel, especially since they will all be traveling a second time for the actual wedding.

Anyone done anything similar? I know it may not follow the "rules", but I'm not much of a rule follower anyway! ;-)

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Latest activity by Charley, on December 7, 2017 at 7:45 AM
  • Joanna
    Expert October 2017
    Joanna ·
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    There are no rules. So long as you're available and not planning the party, have at it. Smiley smile

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  • lilam18
    Expert July 2018
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    It's a little unconventional, but if the opportunity is there I'd say go for it!

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  • Heather
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    Heather ·
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    I had mine early for weather reasons. Go for it!

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  • M
    Devoted December 2018
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    Not a problem at all! I've seen them done around this time frame. My only request for mine is that it's in late May/June so one of my closest friends can attend before moving out of the country in July. My wedding is Dec 1! She plans on attending the wedding, and it would really mean a lot to both of us if she could be there.

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  • Charli
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    Charli ·
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    That's what we were going to do for my original date (12/1/18). Everyone was okay with it and no one thought it was too early

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  • Janel
    Super September 2018
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    I think that's fine! I'm sure everyone will appreciate use of the timeshareSmiley smile

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  • PG
    Dedicated November 2017
    PG ·
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    If that's what works best for you guys, then go for it! It sounds like a lot of fun! I did mine 3 months early!

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  • Meg
    Dedicated February 2018
    Meg ·
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    My bachelorette trip was at the 5 month mark. And I'm so glad it was. Now as my weddings fast approaching I'm glad that's checked off the list!

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  • Meg
    Dedicated February 2018
    Meg ·
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    We did ours four months early due to scheduling and holidays coming up. Go for it! There is not a set rule on when you should have your bachelorette or bridal shower. Whenever is convenient that you can have most of your favorite people with you to enjoy it should be all that matters! I'd hate to say no let's not do it til my wedding is closer and then miss out on most of your friends/family not being able to make it when they can now instead.

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  • TarHeel729
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    My friend had a DW in France (she lived in DC at the time). Her friends were spread all over the U.S. Her MOH lived in L.A. and hosted the bridal shower/bachelorette party at her house in L.A. six months before my friend’s wedding. It was perfectly fine. I did not think it seemed early just because most people were going to have to travel wherever the shower/bachelorette was held, and it would have been difficult for people to attend both if it had been closer to the wedding. Unfortunately, I wasn’t able to go to the wedding, but was glad I could make it to the pre-wedding event.

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  • Yoomie
    VIP October 2018
    Yoomie ·
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    I'm having my designation bachelorette in New Orleans, LA six months prior to my wedding due to seasonal weather (in New Orleans).

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  • Danielle
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    Danielle ·
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    Since I wanted something beachy and summery as a counterpoint to my December wedding, my wedding party threw me a bachelorette in the Hamptons in July. It's completely fine--and as others have mentioned--for those who have to travel, time gaps between parties can help with budgeting.

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