Bachelorette Weekend

My friends planned it but they asked me for my input so they know what I wanted to do. I don't think it's wrong to tell whoever is hosting of things you'd preferably like to do

My MOH planned mine, but asked for my input. She asked for budgets from the other bridesmaids prior to planning. She didn't want me to pay at all, but I ended up paying for dinner for everyone the first night, favors, all the ubers, and groceries for the house. I just didn't feel right not paying. Since you are awhile away, I'd wait and see if your MOH or BMs plan on doing anything for you? They might be bummed if you take over the planning. Personally I didn't want a bach or bridal shower if I had to plan it, the wedding was enough to plan.

Traditionally, the bridesmaids plan the bachelorette party. My Matron and Maid of honor are planning mine. I gave them some input as to what I wanted/didnt want. Also told them when I'd be in town, since I live out of state, so I know it will most likely be the Saturday before the wedding. Other than that, they are doing it all. They may reach out to my mom with details so she can let my cousins know about it.

I'm pretty much planning my own, but my MOH said she will have some surprises in store. I'm paying for the hotel room too. Just depends on what your group wants to do. Recently I have planned our family vacations so my MOH (sister) knows I'm pretty good at it lol.

My bridesmaid our planning mine ..they asked me what I wanted to do and I just told them a relaxing weekend at the beach..so they booked a beach house and I'm just letting them plan the weekend .