Bachelorette

I've attended multi-day bach but haven't had my own yet if that helps.

View Quoted Comment Did it end up being expensive? Curious to know because I may only have 5 going

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We were all asked our comfort price points and it stayed within that. Besides flight the weekend was $500 and then maybe another $100 on meals and bars.

Was ****% worth it. I had so much fun and got to bond with the bridesmaids I never met. Had to share a bed with a stranger in our Air BnB 😂

My bachelorette party was over a weekend (3 days, 2 nights). This was because each of my bridesmaids lives in a different state, and everyone would have to travel to attend, so they chose a central location for the party. It was super laid back and a lot of fun - and the way they planned everything, the cost was well within everyone's budget. We had 6 of us total that attended.

My bachelorette party was over a weekend as well. Two of my bridesmaids flew in from out of state. The rest lived near me, so once they got in, we drove 3 hours away to a beach town. We got there Friday afternoon. We split the cost of 2 rooms. It was $200 per person. Then we had a venmo account for people to donate to the party, we somehow raised $1500 which covered two dinners for everyone, and all our drinks at the beach bar we were at all day Saturday, and Starbucks for everyone on sunday. So people really just had to pay for breakfast/lunch (although we brought tons of snacks and easy breakfast items too), and split gas.

Mine was also over a long weekend. All my bridesmaids were in the same state, so I picked a central town I had been wanting to see for years. It was a 4 hour drive for everyone. I personally wasn’t comfortable with the whole “bridesmaids pay for the bride so she doesn’t have to” concept and actually split the AirBnb cost along with my ladies after clearing the cost with them. I even drove myself and offered to drive them to the town (well one was my younger sis who was MOH lol) 2 of whom took my offer. Once there, meals were paid for individually, except on the first night when I covered appetizers for them and then Saturday lunch when I bought them all pizzas to sober up after a wine tour (yes I’m probably the “mom” of my friend group LOL). In all, everyone had fun and I never received complaints about the cost 😊

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I did the same thing and had everyone converge where i live and we had the bridal shower the same weekend.

We did mine over a weekend (two days, one night) since one bridesmaid had to fly in and the whole event was at a winery and resort.