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Bachlorette Invitation List

Amanda, on December 11, 2019 at 7:30 AM Posted in Parties and Events 0 9
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My MOH has asked me for a list of people I would like invited to the bachlorette weekend she and my bridal party are hosting in my honor this spring. I of course have included all the bridesmaids and my friends who are invited to the wedding, however, my question is can I add people who are possibly not invited to the wedding to the bachlorette party? We have an A and B list due to the obligation of inviting family (ugh) and many of my friend's are on the B list unfortunately due to size constraints with the room we chose for our reception. These friend's are a lot of fun and would love to celebrate with us however I'm nervous inviting people to a party and not the wedding.

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Latest activity by Amanda, on December 12, 2019 at 7:28 AM
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    Champion July 2019
    Veronica ·
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    You should only invite those that are actually invited to the wedding. It is considered rude to invite guests to invite guests to pre-wedding events, but not the actual wedding.
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    Amanda ·
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    Thank you!! That's what I was wondering.

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  • MOB So Cal
    January 2019
    MOB So Cal ·
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    I agree with pp. If I was invited to a bachelorette, or shower, I would assume I'd be invited to the wedding itself. When I realized I wasn't, I'd likely be disappointed, and feel a bit like I'd been used -- especially for a shower gift. (The same would be true of an invitation to an engagement party.) Unfortunately, if your friends aren't assured a place on the A list for the wedding, they should not be invited to other events.

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    I agree with the previous posts.. if they aren’t invited to the wedding I wouldn’t invite them to the party
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    Alex ·
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    If they are not invited to the wedding, it is extremely rude to invite them to the Bachelor Party.

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  • Meghan
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    Meghan ·
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    Only those who will be invited to the wedding should be invited to the bachelorette party.
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  • Vannesa
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    Vannesa ·
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    Only invite those who are invited to the wedding it would be rude to invite them to party and possible spend money on you and not invite them to the wedding.

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  • Yoice
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    Yoice ·
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    If you invite them to the bachelorette party they’ll be expecting an invitation to the wedding and you’ll look bad when they don’t get one.
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    Amanda ·
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    Thank's everyone for your comments!! I got the answer I was looking for and got the list to my MOH yesterday.

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