Hi everyone!
So I had 5 bridesmaids but 2 can’t make it due to current circumstances which I understand but I had bought a package deal for the makeup. And luckily the vendors were willing to work with me on the 2 bridesmaids.
But now I have a mother of the groom and one of my 3 bridesmaids back out too after I reminded them about it. I am paying for it all so I have to figure out because it impacts me.
Is it worth asking anyone else? I have a flower girl that could get hers, or my fiancé sisters could but I really just wanted our getting room ready to be those I am most comfortable around and also I now worry, by asking anyone I am putting a pressure on them that they might want to just back out of last minute due to current situations with Covid.
My one bridesmaid said I should just give them the required number of people paid as the tip. So I am paying for two people that aren’t getting it done and that would be her tip.
What do you think?
Thanks for the help!
I understand people’s concern, it just feel like a bummer I offered to pay and did pay and now it’s just let down news before the big day. I mean, the 1 bridesmaid isn’t even going to hang out with us now as tradition during the getting ready time.
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