Bad Bachelorette party... what do i do?

My bachelorette party wasn’t even a party. My best friend (and MOH) was supposed to be planning it. She was telling me leading up to it how fun it was going to be, and I even gave her ideas on things that I enjoy and others would enjoy. On the day of the party, I woke up and she was already at my house. Her and another girl had already started “decorating” and I had to sit on my stairs until they were done. One of my bridesmaids didn’t show up at first, so we all decided to get lunch. They asked me where I wanted to go and I picked Buffalo Wild Wings.


Once we got there, we ordered and got our drinks. We ate and the bridesmaid we were waiting on finally arrived without anything she was supposed to bring. When the server asked how our checked were divided, nobody bothered to pay for me (which I feel should’ve been done because I would do it for any of my girls). We paid, and left.
Once we got back to my house, I sat on my stairs for another three hours waiting for the late bridesmaid to show up with the rest of the “decorations.” When I finally got to come downstairs, I was met with male genitalia toothpicks taped to my wall, and straws of the same shape. There was some snacks, but not much.
I waited around to see what was planned, but nothing came. We played one game and listened to music at the table. Eventually we decided it was time for dinner and everyone voted on Pizza Hut because I got a discount for working there.
All of this while my husband’s party took him to lunch on a boat, shooting, and to a five star steakhouse for dinner where they paid for his food.
I feel hurt and mad. I wanted to blow up, but I cried in my room instead. Should I get over it? How should I react to this. I don’t feel like anyone cared about how it went.