After postponing twice due to COVID and deciding to combine a Nigerian wedding and American wedding into one day, I am still in awe of how amazing the day turned out! Thanks to the forum for all of the help/ideas! And just know that choosing awesome vendors are priceless and it all will be worth it in the end!!!
Also, I know I loved the BAM's that included financial details but we had so many vendors that listing them out would take forever. I had no idea how expensive weddings were, but Nigerian weddings tend to have large guest lists. We upped our budget and ended up a little over $60k and would do it again in a heartbeat. We did have family help and did not go into debt. Good luck to all the future brides!