BAM!

Love your wife's hair!!! The photos of the three of you are so sweet, and I love the lip prints! That is also the most gorgeous chuppah I have ever seen.

Ahh they/them! I love the chuppah. And your W. All of it.

We were thinking about doing card/small tabletop games also! I'm so glad they were well recieved. We might keep some of the offensive CAH cards. We also have Cthulu Fluxx and Forbidden Island. They're definitely fan favorites.

Congratulations! You look so very, very happy!

These are amazing. Love her pink hair!!

So colorful and bright! You guys look amazing!

Gorgeous, congrats!!

They/them!!! Oh my goodness I'm so glad I popped on here today to see this now that I don't chat often! You know I loved all the details I saw so far. You guys look so happy and wonderful.

Her pink hair is TDF. Ahhh how beautiful! Also, I'm not Jewish but I want a Ketubah because I love love love the symbolism and the beauty of them.

@Chrises, at least as I understand it, a ketubah is kind of a Big Deal sacred Jewish thing, much like a chuppah, so I'm not sure my rabbi (among other Jews, lol) wouldn't side-eye you for getting one and referring to it as a ketubah -- but there's no reason you couldn't do a fancy art-ified symbolic marriage contract/certificate type thing and just not call it a ketubah/not use the specifically Jewish language ("consecrated to me as my beloved according to the laws of Moses and Israel", that sort of thing). People do wedding canopies that look like chuppahs and just don't call them chuppahs or describe them with the Jewish symbolism all the time, and that's definitely fine.

I don't know for sure, but I suspect, for example, Quaker marriage certificates are likely open to all comers, and I know lots of Etsy sellers do both ketubahs and Quaker marriage certificates -- I bet one of them could do something custom for you if the Quaker ones aren't quite what you want.

Beautiful!

@Bryce, the specific cards I cited hit home for us personally because, well, we're Jewish and W is a pro domme, we're tired of Holocaust jokes and the "chunks of dead prostitute" card (and similar cards if there are any others, I don't remember) is upsetting to see played. We thought about not having CAH at all but eh, it's not that hard to modify the game so it's accessible and enjoyable for everyone! If those cards don't bother you, don't worry, I'm not here to be the social justice police for other people's weddings.

@Jacqui, thank you! It was a collaborative effort by our wedding party

@theformerfmdf *blushes a lot* no, YOU!

Bumping for the Monday crowd! ;-)

Yaaaay finally! I was impatiently waiting for this BAM!!

Kay, you guys look dashing. I love the pink yarmulkes and the pink veil!! So much colour all of you look so happy it made me smile too. And both yours and your wife's hair are lovely congrats again!

@Cats: Thanks for bumping this thread I would have kicked myself if I had missed this BAM!

OK. the shot of you and your W under the umbrella is sooo sweet and beautiful. You need to print and hang that! I demand it!

Love this BAM!

Oh, this just made me so less cranky today, @they/them! What a beautiful day and your lovely wife's hair is amazing!

Oh man!!! These are awesome! Holy moly your wife's hair is amazing!!

Awesome pictures! Loving the umbrella picture!

I love all the pink details, lips prints and how happy and beautiful you both look. Congrats!!!

Looks amazing! Love your kippah and your ketubah! I'm just about to buy my ketuba so I was captivated by yours