Hey all,
I have recently been asked (and accepted) my friend asking me to be a bridesmaid in her wedding. My concern is that I am trans woman, but still very much identified male by most people. I am not extremely tall (5'10), but very overweight (259 lbs.) with a lot of upper body mass, deep-ish voice, and some hair removal still needed. I am worried that I will be a distraction from my friends day. She was very insistent (and her fiance is amazing and super supportive of me also) that if I wake up, even that morning, and don't feel comfortable in the dress, she just wants me a part of her wedding, and said she wouldn't care if I chose to wear a suit that day, just to avoid looks. I don't want to do that, but my anxiety isn't controlled. I am hoping that you would share your opinions on this situation. Including what you would think if you were a guest, or if you were the bride in this situation