I am upset my best friend/ basically family won't be attending my wedding.. I am right to feel upset?
Backstory: My fiance asked me to marry him probably 5 times randomly and very casually over the course of 2 years, so the first times I didn't even know if he was serious (he's terrible at this stuff). So we started talking about a July 4th wedding because we thought it was a cute idea to have fireworks, but we didn't plan anything. So March comes along and I'm talking to my best friend and sister about it and how I'm not sure what's happening with the engagement. They responded to to talk to him and tell him I want to get married July 4th and set it in stone. That night I discussed it with him and he got excited that we were really going to get married. I was super glad we're on the same page. I start searching for venues, we tell the parents and my friend is excited.
A few days later my friend was talking to me about the wedding and goes oh no I'm supposed to go to Spain for 3 weeks, can't you get married next year, or a different weekend? Hers the issue my fiance and I have a baby and we ate trying for another, so I don't want to do it the following year with a newborn and a toddler Also next year July 4th is a monday. I moved my baby shower last year for her vacation she was suppose to take but couldn't because of covid. She always has me move my plans for her.So I said said no and I never say no and she's like I guess I can't go to your wedding then. She didn't even know if she could go to Spain due to the covid restrictions, I said can you move the vacation around and she said no because because her boyfriend's family would be upset (okay it's a group trip I get that) I Said can you come back a week early they're pretty lenient with flexible air times during covid She said no and I volunteered to pay for her to come back a week early and she said no.
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