Hi ladies 👋🏾,
So my best friend of 15 years refuses to acknowledge my engagement or wedding planning. My fiancé proposed at my birthday party last month and contact my BFF beforehand to get her to help him with ideas. She ordered a cake and a cake topper. On the day of my birthday she seemed to be reserved and when he proposed she took photos with me and posted on my social media that she was so happy. After that she has turned mute, of I being up plans or anything she has a very rude comment or will not comment at all. We are having a destination wedding in 2022 as both our families live in that country.
When we decided on a date I called her excitedly told her we were coming planning for May 2022 and she said “why would u choose that date Everyone knows that’s expensive”
The next day I was excited to buy a wedding planner and went to chapters. I took a pic on Instagram And thought I was sending it to a few close friends but accidentally made a group. She text me and said “ I was about to cuss you, why the f would u make a group just to show off a wedding planner”
Next we went to a family members house and they were all congratulating us, a guy we know asked to see my ring and made a joke saying my fiancé “must be rich because my ring is gorgeous” I told her about this next day and her response was “why is he making a big deal it’s just a ring”
She refuses to talk to me about any plans, she avoids all convos, it’s as if I never go engaged as she still calls me daily to talk about anything else but once this topic comes up she goes silent. everyone assumes she will be my MOH but I don’t need those negative vibes around me. I tried to have a convo with her one day about it and mentioned that she didn’t seem thrilled, she didn’t admit or deny it but said “well what do u want me to say, if u want me to be part of your wedding I will have to, I can’t say no”
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