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Best man plus one

Daniel, on July 28, 2023 at 1:15 AM Posted in Planning 0 7

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Hey everyone, first time posting here.
I have a weeding in 4 weeks and one day.
And a little month ago my best man split from his gf, and we the started to plan the whole seating planning.Now 3 days before cut of time for rsvp for the weeding, he just told us that they are back together.Can we tell him that his +1 is no longer valid ? Or should she come ?When they broke up we made it so he would sit next to our best friend guy group, since we are like brothers…Now we might have to move around a whole lot of people to make the table plan work….Hope you can come with some opinion, and how to tell him if it is that…
And when it come to the weeding, it’s a city hall,And a Danish/Croatian wedding in Denmark, so tradition is not the main factor in this weeding

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Jacks · on July 28, 2023 at 1:49 AM
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She should come. It's respectful to his relationship. Even if they are on and off, I would still extend the invitation. It won't matter much in the long term.
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CM · on July 28, 2023 at 7:49 AM
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Last minute seating changes are not unusual. We had place cards professionally done and had to do a last minute update or two. It just goes with the territory. If they are together again and she was previously invited then yes, she should be included.
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Cece · on July 28, 2023 at 8:58 AM
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Yes, she should still be invited. And as others have mentioned, your seating chart may very well change right up to the last minute. We were making changes the week of! Don't let it stress you out - everything will work out!
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Kimberly · on July 29, 2023 at 8:39 AM
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Yes, she should still be invited, especially if it’s still before the RSVP cutoff time. It’s not affecting your seating charts or numbers than someone who hasn’t RSVP’d yet.
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Jada · on July 29, 2023 at 8:50 AM
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It is your guys day and you guys should have to keep changing thing in your wedding because his life is changing i just respectfully would be like with such short notice she will not be able to attend due to plans already set in place i would make sure to explain that to the girlfriend as well so no one’s feelings are hurt
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Jada · on July 29, 2023 at 8:53 AM
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Sorry i’m the last comment i posted i didn’t realize that she rsvp on time since she did on time it should be enough time to rearrange the seating leaving no one stressed.
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Teresa · on July 31, 2023 at 3:52 AM
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This is exactly why I am not doing a seating chart. My FH & I are the ones getting married, it's our day.. We are all family and friends. I don't need a seating chart telling my guest where they can and can not sit. So if someone doesn't come that is invited that RSVPed Yes. No harm no foul. I am not going through the extra mess just to change someone's seating arrangements. We are all grown, sit where you want and who you want to sit next too as long as everyone is respectful and not causing drama.
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