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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Best Thing about being Engaged?

Lynnie, on August 10, 2015 at 2:49 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 29

Happy Monday afternoon everyone! For those of us on the East Coast we're already over halfway done with the day (thank god)!

What is everyone's favorite thing about being engaged?

For me, my absolute favorite thing about being engaged is NO MORE asking when I'm going to get engaged!!!!! FH and I have been together for 7 years so I've been non-stop bombarded with this question for forever! I'm going to a wedding in 2 weeks and it will be the 1st one with a ring on my finger - so excited!

(oh - and the gorgeous rock on my finger as well, that's definitely a favorite)

29 Comments

Latest activity by Lyn, on August 11, 2015 at 6:52 PM
  • Sarah195
    Master October 2016
    Sarah195 ·
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    I love going to weddings with a ring on my finger lol. When I attended weddings before getting engaged it made me wish I could be planning my own wedding and now I am! I also love calling my FH my fiance and I don't feel crazy for pinning wedding ideas because I actually do need them now!

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  • OG Kristen
    Master October 2015
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    WW, obviously.

    No, I honestly love how FH and I's relationship has gotten even better since we've been engaged. I don't know how to describe it, we just seem even closer than we were before.

    Other than that, I just want to be married already. I'm over being engaged.

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  • Ashley771
    Super October 2016
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    I love knowing that I get to spend the rest of my life with FH! Before the ring, I had a guarded heart because I was afraid he would up and leave one day, but now I get him forever Smiley smile

    Also, i love saying Fiance.

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  • Barbara
    Master September 2014
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    We had talked about getting married a lot before getting engaged, so being engaged was a nice, extra reassurance that it wasn't just talk.

    We did go to a wedding about 5 weeks after getting engaged, and it was definitely nice being able to go to that one (after going to several in a row w/o a ring) w/ a ring.

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  • EatKnitRun
    Master May 2016
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    I was really excited about the wedding and the ring before I got engaged. But now that I really am that stuff seems a lot less important. I feel more secure in my relationship with my FH now that he really is my FH. We had been talking about marriage and living together for almost a year before we got engaged, but there was always this little nagging voice in the back of my head "what if he changes his mind" "you don't deserve this." Those doubts are completely gone. I don't know if it's the formal commitment or what, but I think he acts a little more like a protector now. Finally, we are a little more pragmatic and less dreamy when we talk about our future, and that's a good thing for us. We have been engaged for almost a year, so that may play a part in how I feel.

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  • Katy
    Master September 2015
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    Engaged sex. Duh.

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  • JadedRaven
    VIP September 2016
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    I second Kristen's response. I also feel like my relationship with FH has gotten better than it was, which I didn't think was possible (awww..soooo sappy). But I think for me, it's knowing that we have made the agreement to get married and have made that agreement as official as it gets. It's knowing that he's committed to me, and me to him. Adds a certain depth to the relationship I guess.

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  • FMM
    Master January 2016
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    Knowing i'm one step closer to marrying my weirdo.

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  • JadedRaven
    VIP September 2016
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    Ok. yeah, that too Katy.

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  • Mrs. Kassy
    Master June 2015
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    My favorite part was knowing that we were going to get married soon! We were so excited to take that next step, that it made our relationship so much stronger.

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  • Andrea
    VIP September 2015
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    I love the way it has seemed to bring us even closer. But for us nothing much will change. We've been living with each other for over two years and he has always referred to me as his wife. So I guess now it will be for real.

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  • jomabago
    Super September 2017
    jomabago ·
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    Hahaha yeah, WW and the planning!

    But, again like Kristen said, I really feel like we are closer. And although I've always known he loves me and he always talks about our future/wedding/kids together, I feel a stronger bond with him and feel more comfortable also talking about our future together. Not sure why it took a ring that I wasn't even expecting to do that lol.

    I love looking at my ring knowing what it means and I love that he likes to bring it up and just soak it in :]. Although he always tries to get me to cry (happy tears) because it makes him feel special and apparently also horny.. lol.

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  • SamanthaRay
    Expert August 2016
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    I love knowing my FH could have chose any girl to marry him but he chose me! And now we get to spend the rest of our lives together making memories. Its such a fun journey to have the person you love more than anything by your side!

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  • Nikki
    VIP June 2016
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    Feeling like I'm becoming part of FH's family... My relationship with his parents has gotten a lot better since we got engaged.

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
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    Had to add another one! His sister is going to have her 1st child any day now and now I can refer to myself as the baby's Aunt for real!!!

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  • Ally
    Master October 2016
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    'officially' being a part of his family.

    and knowing i found my man. i'm happy.

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  • LDwed
    Super April 2016
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    I agree with previous posters about that I feel closer to FH and our relationship is even more awesome than it was before. I also think it's super hot how he has stepped up and started taking care of stuff! It might sound weird, but I think it's super sexy to come home and him tell me that he made an appointment with the DJ or that the title company is picking up our ernest money for our house. (I usually take care of most stuff) Getting engaged has made him really step up to the plate. He's gonna be an amazing husband and father!

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  • OG Kathryn
    Champion May 2016
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    Im the same with you Lynnie, we have been together 8 years and boy does the :"when are you goign to get married" shit get old!

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  • Brenda
    Super September 2015
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    I agree that our relationship got better and more fun. I think what I love the most is that he chose me out of all the people in the world to live his rest of his days! I feel so special and it doesn't hurt that I'll have sisters in law! I've always wanted sisters Smiley smile

    eta- i'm glad i don't have to use tinder or date anymore either. no offense to those who used it! but dating seems so hard now!

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  • nancy
    Dedicated September 2015
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    Oh man - is someone peeling onions? So nice to hear how in love everyone is. I agree with the sentiments of feeling closer and more secure in my relationship and solidifying the team that we are about to become. Being engaged legitimizes you in some way and getting to stare at the shiny precious all day when work sucks is definitely an added bonus!

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