Hi fellow brides 👰♂
I have a dilemma we have been engaged for 12 months now, I started getting the ball rolling and planning etc I set up a site visit at the venue we both like initially we both wanted an intimate wedding about 80 people. But when I brought it up to my fiance to give me a list of his side of family as I had a list going with our closest friends and my family so I make sure I add them currently at about 88, he said I don't want anything big I just want a very small wedding id rather put the money towards a deposit for a house. I then said well I get that and understand but I would like to celebrate with our family and close friends, so I think we need to compromise on this. Is it unfair to feel like everything is what he wants,he disnt even ask how many people I would like or what I think?
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