Hello!
I am writing for some advice about this sticky situation. Last year, I met my birth mom and her kids and over the past year, we have become really close. Now, we have more of a sisterly bond and her kids see me as a big sister. At first, my adoptive mom was very supportive but she is having some extreme jealousy issues. I invited my birth mom, her husband as well as her kids to the wedding and made her kids a flower girl and a ring bearer(my adopted mom had an issue with this and threw a tantrum when I told her I was putting her kids in the bridal party.) I want to honor my birth mom in some way but how do I do this without upsetting my adoptive mom. I have tried consoling my adoptive mom by reassuring her that she is my real mom and that I love her many times but it doesn't seem to work. Any help/feedback would be nice!
