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Master March 2019

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The Bride, on August 5, 2019 at 7:38 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 38
If your partner asked you to block someone on social media for the sake of your marriage would you do it? Why or why not?

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Latest activity by The Bride, on September 6, 2019 at 4:55 PM
  • Michaela
    Super May 2020
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    My fiancé would only ask me that for a really good reason, so yes
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  • Laura
    VIP November 2019
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    It would depend on the circumstances. I can’t just blindly say yes to that.
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  • D
    Super July 2020
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    For the sake of the marriage?! Wow that is some serious language!
    If they put it that way we would have to have a serious talk about what was going on that this person on social media was a threat to our marriage in the first place.
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  • AQuixoticBride
    VIP July 2018
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    I can't imagine my husband asking me to do that unless someone was being harassing or something. If it's jealousy over an ex or whatever- that's a conversation we wouldn't even have. So it matters what the reason is. I'm curious what "for the sake of the marriage" means.
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  • Michelle
    Super August 2019
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    Most likely yes but it would also depend on who and why. He gets along with pretty much everyone and doesn't generally mind anyone I'm friends with. If he wanted me to block someone he'd better have a good reason.
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  • The Bride
    Master March 2019
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    I agree with you.
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  • The Bride
    Master March 2019
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    Under what circumstances would you say no?
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  • The Bride
    Master March 2019
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    😄 I did word it very seriously.
    I agree that a conversation would be necessary.
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  • The Bride
    Master March 2019
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    Let's say a guy routinely likes your pictures and leaves comments under your post to the point where your husband is uncomfortable with it and it keeps coming up in your marriage until he finally asks you to block him. Would you do it? Why or why not?
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  • The Bride
    Master March 2019
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    I agree that I would do it if my husband had a good reason.
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  • Grace
    Dedicated December 2019
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    He's my most important person. If there was someone he had that big of a problem with, to the extent that he needed me to block them too, then of course I would. It's really easy to block someone on a meaningless social media website.
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  • Colleen
    Master September 2019
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    I would tell him I loved him and I am allowed to have guy friends. That is just jealousy and controlling behavior.
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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
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    I don't think so! I'm still my own person and an adult. FH can't dictate who I should block. The same goes for the other way. I have no right to demand FH to block anyone

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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
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    I agree! I think it's immature to get upset over your partner's friendships with the opposite sex

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  • Colleen
    Master September 2019
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    I would hear him out if he thought I was being hurt or this person was not healthy for me. Maybe seeing things I did not see.
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  • Colleen
    Master September 2019
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    What if you were friends with them? People on my social media are my friends.
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  • D
    Super July 2020
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    No I would not block them if nothing was going on. I don't control her social media. I don't use social media unless wedding wire counts. Even if I did she doesn't get to choose who I talk to.
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  • Grace
    Dedicated December 2019
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    I guess I figure my marriage is more important than that friendship. He wouldn't ask me to block someone unless there was a good, valid reason that mattered to us both.
    I'd rather unfriend someone on Facebook, than tell my partner I don't trust his judgement or feelings.
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  • Rebecca
    Master August 2019
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    We're in the process of this right now.

    My mother is a narcissist, has engineered the entirety of my family declining to come to the wedding (with the exception of the ONE cousin who is in France, who can't come anyway...), and has a history of emotionally abusing me.


    I blocked her today. Across all platforms.


    FH fully supports this.

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  • The Bride
    Master March 2019
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    I agree with you.

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