Idk about you all, but I honestly cannot stand being fake towards people. I am, completely fine with being cordial. My FH’s brother had hurt me several times over the past four years by gossiping about me and spreading false rumors. An example is how I received daily phone calls from my sister who would complain to me about being a single parent. I finally told my sister to please stop calling me if she had nothing positive to say and that she made a poor decision to have relations with an unemployed man who made it clear that he didn’t want kids nor a committed relationship with her. I encouraged her to seek counseling and use that weekly session for much of her complaining. My FBIL heard me say this to my FH.
To my ignorance, he thinks of himself as a single parent even though his parents raised his child and he never lived with his child 😯. He then proceeded to tell several people that I made rude comments about single parents 😯😯 which is very false. I was speaking on my frustration with my sister.
My FH has talked with him several times, but it still continues, just less often. I finally put my foot down and I refuse to hug him when he tries to embrace me. I politely step back and reach out my hand for a handshake. Apparently he’s very offended by this. Now I’m being told by my FMIL that I’m being rude. Do you all agree or disagree with this?