I'm planning on hoops for BM's and am torn between a slightly more elaborate hoop for me or having a bouquet. I like the look of the hoop but will I regret not having a bouquet? A main thing to consider is that I have small hands and carrying something heavier like a bouquet for any length of time might be too much. That being said, did anyone put something on their bouquet to help carry? Thanks! 🙂