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Helena
Dedicated October 2021

Bouquet or Hoop?

Helena, on March 6, 2021 at 3:39 PM Posted in Style and Décor 0 17
I'm planning on hoops for BM's and am torn between a slightly more elaborate hoop for me or having a bouquet. I like the look of the hoop but will I regret not having a bouquet? A main thing to consider is that I have small hands and carrying something heavier like a bouquet for any length of time might be too much. That being said, did anyone put something on their bouquet to help carry? Thanks! 🙂

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Latest activity by Nicole, on November 4, 2021 at 2:36 PM
  • Biaani
    Expert May 2021
    Biaani ·
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    Wow I was JUST looking into this lol. I think the hoops are super cute but as the bride I would go with a bouquet. That's if you wanna have that "bridal" look. Just let the BDs keep the hoops.

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  • Hanna
    VIP June 2019
    Hanna ·
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    I agree with PP. I think that hoops would be super cute for the bridesmaids but for the bride, I'd go with the traditional bouquet. Let's face it, that bouquet will be in nearly all of your formal photos! If you're worried about it being heavy, maybe discuss with your florist about lighter-weight materials to use.

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  • Helena
    Dedicated October 2021
    Helena ·
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    Good points! Yes I'm so conflicted on this but I think a lighter bouquet would be the way to go. Thanks!🙂
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  • Helena
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    Helena ·
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    Agreed! I'm also about "balance" and think it might look strange for pictures if I'm holding a hoop. I may go ahead and get one made, slightly larger, to hang on a wall in my house. There really are too many choices during planning these days lol!
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I feel like I’d rather go with a bouquet unless you wanted to substantially stand out even more in photos with the hoop
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  • Natalie
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    Natalie ·
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    My vote is for bouquet! They are timeless!
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  • Emily
    Savvy July 2022
    Emily ·
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    Yes, I’d say bouquets. I think hoops are probably a big trend that will look outdated in a few years when you’re looking back at your wedding pictures.
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  • Helena
    Dedicated October 2021
    Helena ·
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    No! Total introvert here so I definitely don't want to stand out anymore than I will be! Haha! I think bouquet will be the way to go.
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  • Molly
    Expert May 2022
    Molly ·
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    I have never heard of hoops before, but that is a neat idea! Another option on the wrist instead of holding a bouquet is an elaborate corsage.

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    Bouquet or Hoop? 1

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  • Helena
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    Helena ·
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    That's pretty too! Thanks for sharing!
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  • Michelle
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    I prefer the look of a bouquet. Either is up to whatever you wish.

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  • Natalie
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    I had the same debate! Ultimately doing hoops for bridesmaids and bouquet for me. After looking at photos of both styles, the one with the bridal hoop just looked like too many hoops IMO... having it be a bouquet breaks it up a little aesthetically. Also I like the bridal option to be bigger than the bridesmaids, and when the hoop is too big it looks off. I still love the idea of hoops, I'm using artificial flowers and I like imagining my bridesmaids can keep the hoops to hang up on the wall, or use it as a wreath maybe, etc.

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  • Helena
    Dedicated October 2021
    Helena ·
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    Thanks Natalie! This is exactly where I am! I'm using someone from Etsy to provide artifical flowers and love the idea of bridesmaids reusing those hoops to hang. Also, if they don't want to keep them I can always use them for decoration. Agreed on the bigger hoop still looking off balance for me so will be going with the bouquet.
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    Just Said Yes May 2022
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    I need an image of this hoop. Never heard of it besides being a centerpiece.
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  • Helena
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    Helena ·
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    Bouquet or Hoop? 2
    Hoop sample pic
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    Just Said Yes May 2022
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    Oh that’s pretty! I think I will keep my bouquet though. Thanks for sharing an image.
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  • Nicole
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    Nicole ·
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    Oooh...I didn't know that was a thing! But, I like it!
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