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Savvy December 2020

Boyfriend not invited

Patty, on January 1, 2020 at 2:14 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 42

So I’m the MOH for my bff wedding, out of state. She just let me know that she doesn’t have enough room to let people have plus ones/bring other people and that my significant other can’t attend due to spacing. This has seriously hurt my feelings, and my boyfriends, as we have been living together...
So I’m the MOH for my bff wedding, out of state. She just let me know that she doesn’t have enough room to let people have plus ones/bring other people and that my significant other can’t attend due to spacing. This has seriously hurt my feelings, and my boyfriends, as we have been living together for over 4 years and my bff stays at our apartment when she comes to visit and hangs out with my boyfriend. Is it wrong of me to be sad and mad? It’s a bummer to me, since I have to fly out there and stay for a few days, that my partner can’t come with me to help celebrate my friend.
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    Judith ·
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    This is unpardonable rude. Give her one chance to fix it. Tell her that it is customary to invite couples together, and that you planned on going together. And you hope she will find room. But if she does not respect your relationship, you will not be attending her wedding, at all.
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  • Rachel
    Savvy November 2021
    Rachel ·
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    I would be mad and sad... if she is really struggling financially it would make sense but otherwise I would see it as she isn't a good friend.

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