I am getting married and 17 days, and my bachelorette party is this weekend. My MOH is making it all about her. I have planned 90% of the night and had to argue with her about it constantly. She wanted to just go out to dinner and go home. I wanted to go to a bar. She is a part time barista at Starbucks and was complaining bc she normally works Sunday mornings. I asked her to maybe take a later shift, and after some huffing and puffing she did. My other bridesmaid said she was down and ready to go, but last week she said she can’t be there till after 9 now bc of an engagement party for a girls whose wedding she isn’t even in. My other bridesmaids I understand because they live out of town and have small children. Now my MOH wants to invite her boyfriend and all of their friends. She said they would do there own thing, but be there to watch out for us. That was fine with me, but now she is talking about how much fun it will be with all of us and how she plans to get wasted. I don’t even know these people. I told her I didn’t want to hangout with them and was looking for a low key night at a bar with some friends. She keeps making the night about her and what she wants, and when I tell her something she says she understands then tries to ask again in a few days.
I am am beyond fed up with the lack of support and help. The only help I had received was in buying my dress. Only one ordered there dress before January. One hasn’t even gotten hers in yet bc she waited to long (we are 17 days out) and the other is just now getting hers fitted! I also planned all but the food of my bridal shower.
This is mostly to vent, but also to see if anyone else went through the same thing and has advice.
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