I am really struggling, based on what I have read on the internet about asking two of my friends to be greeters and handout ceremony programs. I initially thought this was an awesome idea (I've been to weddings where people had them), so I could include an additional two girls in my wedding festivities. I would include them in rehearsal, wear a bridesmaids dress, getting ready prior to the wedding, wedding party pictures, sitting at the wedding party dinner table, etc. I just felt it was excessive to have 12 girls walking down the isle and my fiance can't match that number. I was set on this, but then I started reading forums and women were like "that is so rude and I would turn the offer down, thanks but I'm not a second class citizen". I would say these girls are aware they arent my oldest friends, but I really want to include them in the fun. So I guess I am just looking for advice.
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