Hello!
We have only been engaged a week but we are well underway to having this thing planned! The venue was just officially booked today and we are getting married on November 5, 2022 so there can be no COVID restrictions!
I only have a couple of close girlfriends but my future husband has many close friends who he considers family. When we started talking about wedding parties he was rattling off a TON of names! But he has one brother and I have one sister. So we decided to keep our wedding party small and simple with just our siblings. One of my girlfriends already told me she knows I have a sister and would not blame me at all if I just chose her to be in my wedding party. But my other close girlfriend has already started to try and help me plan as if she's the MOH.
How do I have the conversation with her that she will not be in the wedding party at all and I only chose my sister? I was her MOH so I think she assumes she will be mine but to be completely honest I just want her to be a guest and have a good time!
Anyone ever have to break this kind of news to a close friend? Was it well-received?