Bridal Party Makeup

I wouldn’t do that, people have their own makeup they like to use and they could have sensitive skin. If you’d like them to wear something specific, maybe talk to them after you’ve proposed the question. You could also pay for a makeup artist to ensure their makeup doesn’t look “insane”. Are you worried about them doing insane makeup?

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I agree. I wouldn't do this. Plus it still doesn't prevent them from doing their makeup however they want. I think if you want them to have a certain look, you should pay to have their makeup done.

Agree with the two posters above. I have super sensitive and dry skin and definitely wouldn't use something random given to me. It's also like you're telling your bridesmaids that they're props in your wedding - that the look you choose for them is better than the one they choose for themselves.

I'm particular about the makeup I wear, I break out easily and my eyes get irritated. So unless it was a really nice brand, I'd prefer people don't buy me makeup. I also can't do my own makeup very well, so I'd be annoyed if a bride requested a specific kind of style on me since I can't do it myself.

I wouldn't do that. I have really sensitive skin and eyes, and I'll have awful acne breakouts and eye infections if I use anything other than this one particular brand that doesn't seem to bother me! I think if you tell them that you want them to go for a mostly natural look (like, no purple eyeliner, etc) then they will get the idea. If they ask if you have a preference of what specific makeup to use, then you can either tell them or get it from them. But most women prefer certain brands for one reason or another, and while I suppose I wouldn't be annoyed or upset if you tried to give it to me, I definitely would be if you told me I HAD to use it instead of my own brand!

I wouldn’t do that. If anything I would pay for their makeup to be professionally done as part of their gift.

I wouldn't. Everyone has different skin, and different concerns. For example I have oily skin and large pores, most makeups look TERRIBLE on me, I've finally found a combination of makeup products that work for my skin, so I'd be pretty upset if someone tried to make me use a different kind (and they'd probably regret it when my face looks terrible lol). Plus, you want your bridesmaids to feel confident about themselves.

If how their makeup looks is that much of a concern to you I'd recommend paying for everyone to have it professionally done. That way they can discuss their skin type with a professional and let the professional create a look they feel comfortable with that will be polished and perfect.

Do any of your friend normally wear "insane" makeup? I think the vast majority of people know what is/isn't appropriate attire (makeup included) for weddings so this is not necessary.

And to echo PP, most people are particular about their makeup brands. I'm a big of a high-end makeup snob, so unless it was a high-end brand, I wouldn't wear it.

Thank you all very much for your input. I think I have made my decision!

That's rude IMO.

What does everyone think of her requesting that the have elegant neutral or understated tones? Is it rude to ask for no bold tones? My sister wears deep merlot even in the summer and even in a white dress with pink flowers. 🙄😬😒

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IMO, a BM should be able to choose how they like their makeup done. Just like someone who does natural makeup wouldn't necessarily be comfortable with a full face, someone who is used to a bold full face might not feel comfortable with natural makeup. I'd rather my nearest and dearest be comfortable than to have them look a certain way for pictures.