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Bridal Party Welcome Letter

Amanda, on April 28, 2019 at 10:14 AM

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Good Morning WW!! We are quickly (AHHHH) approaching the one year mark until our wedding and I'm finalizing the details of my Bridal party and putting their proposal boxes together. Along with gifts and personalized cards I'm going to include a Welcome Letter outlining the events and some details of...

Good Morning WW!! We are quickly (AHHHH) approaching the one year mark until our wedding and I'm finalizing the details of my Bridal party and putting their proposal boxes together. Along with gifts and personalized cards I'm going to include a Welcome Letter outlining the events and some details of the wedding and the next calendar year. I will also be including an additional page with our room block information and pricing so they can get an idea of cost so they can start financially planning in advance. I have copy pasted my rough draft below, can y'all **gently** let me know what you think? I know it seems extra but I'm super organized and we are all in the same industry so we need to plan out dates well in advance to get the time off.


Hello!!

Welcome to our Bridal Party!! Peter and I are thankful to have wonderful friends in our lives and couldn’t imagine our big day without our best friends by our sides!

The big day is set for Saturday, June 27, 2020 at Pinehurst Golf Resort in Pinehurst, NC. It is located roughly one hour from Raleigh, NC. Ceremony rehearsal and a rehearsal dinner, hosted by Peter’s parents, will take place on the evening of Friday, June 26, 2020. We do ask our Bridal party members to be present at both Rehearsal events and the Wedding day. The morning following the wedding Sunday, June 28, 2020, we will be having a casual send away breakfast at the Carolina Hotel, which has a famous Sunday Brunch. This event is open invitation and by no mean’s required, however it does have great reviews and recommend attending for the amazing food and beverages.

We will also be holding the following events leading up to the wedding. The dates have yet to be determined but time of year is pretty much estimated.

Bridal Party Dress Selection – Fall 2019/Winter 2020

Steel Blue for the Bridesmaid’s and Navy suits for the Groomsmen and Man of Honor are the colors we have chosen for the Wedding Party. Bridesmaids will have their choice of dress in Steel Blue from David’s Bridal in long and the same material (chiffon/satin/etc). There will be no requirement for shoe height or design, but we as a group will choose a color that looks best (silver or rose gold?). Dresses should be ordered no later than March 15, 2020 to allow ample time for shipping and alterations. We will keep cost in mind and be on the lookout for sales and other promotions!

Bachelorette Party – Spring 2020

This is will be a fun weekend event that is open to not just Bridal Party members, but also friends of the Bridal Party. Additional details will come as this event is organized, but it’s going to be an absolute blast!! This event is not required but will be a lot of fun and we hope you can attend!

Bridal Shower – Spring 2020

Peter’s mom and my mom will graciously be hosting a Bridal shower. Once again, more details will follow with date, location and times once these have been established. This event is also not required but will be memorable and a good time to get together leading up to the big day.

We will have a Bridal Party group chat so we can communicate as a group and I will try to keep the chatter in that group down to a minimum.

Thank you for being a part of our big day and we are looking forward to the year to come!!

Love,

Amanda and Peter

28 Comments

  • Maggie
    Beginner September 2023
    Maggie ·
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    Just used your email as a template for my girls! I don't know why people are hating...I have been a bridesmaid/MOH many times and I have always LOVED receiving this much information from the bride because I'm a planner and type A. Thank you for posting this!

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    CM ·
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    Don't do it. I can't even count the ways in which that letter was over the top and in many places inappropriate.

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  • Maggie
    Beginner September 2023
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    I already sent it and I’ve already received a couple emails back from my girls thanking them for how much information I included! They said that most weddings they’ve been in leave them in the dust as far as schedule/dates are concerned and they were really thankful! My people like planning ahead Smiley smile
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    Beginner June 2023
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    Ignore CM, I think you did the right thing! Your bridal party knows you and if anything, shouldn't be surprised by the letter! I'm very much surprised at how people seem to think you shouldn't expect anything besides attendance by the girls you want at your side for your big day. Maybe that's how it was years ago but times change! Ironically CM posted on mine saying the questionnaire I sent was out of bounds, it literally had 5 questions on it to help personalize gifts, lol. It helps remove stress from me and them too because they know I'll give them things they use and actually want along with knowing what I'll financially be covering for them in some areas.

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  • Maggie
    Beginner September 2023
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    I 100% agree! I think being a bridesmaid nowadays comes with more duties than simply attending the day of. I have been in 8 weddings and every time I was asked to participate in more than just the day of I was honestly honored! And beyond thankful when they laid out all the details for the women several months in advance so that we could plan. And even plan cute little surprises for her at each event! Otherwise it would've felt like things were just thrown together last minute. And I love the idea of a questionnaire! I would rather give my girls something practical that they will use over and over and actually enjoy. So, I might steal that idea haha!

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  • Maggie
    Beginner September 2023
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    Also, I've been reading all of the comments that CM is leaving on other peoples discussions....seems like they have a lot of time on their hands and they like to criticize everyone on this website. Sad use of time. So, don't let them rain on your parade because they seem to be doing that to everyone else hahah

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    Beginner June 2023
    Carrie ·
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    I totally noticed that too! I appreciate you posting back! I was initially overwhelmed because they came on super harsh when I felt like I’d just done what I felt was best, thank you!
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  • Maggie
    Beginner September 2023
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    You're welcome Smiley smile Wishing you all the best in the planning process!

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