Hello! My not the bride, I'm the maid of honor and have a question.
My best friend and I are from CA, all her family and most of her friends are here. She recently moved for school and met the man of her dreams and they are now engaged, They will be getting married in Idaho. It's going to be a small wedding, 50 people total and children will be allowed. So really...its like 5 families they are each inviting. I want to throw her a bridal shower here in CA but she's worried about me inviting people even though they wont be invited to the actual wedding. I get where she is coming from, but most of the people I would invite are family members who wouldn't make the trip for her wedding anyways.
So...is it tacky if I invite people she is not inviting? And if it's ok, how do I word the invites?