Bridal Shower Dilemma

So I know it's normal to do a bridal shower, it's so everyone can get together before the wedding and things like that. I get it and I am for it BUT I don't think I want to have one anymore. I am getting married June 2020, and nobody in my wedding party has even muttered words about a bridal party. When I mentioned it they never keep anything going with it. When I said I was going to start looking at some venues they were all like "Oh no you shouldn't be doing anything with it" but then they never do anything for it either. One of my bridesmaids, which is my fiances sister, doesn't want to pay anything for bridal shower or bachorlette party. So it has been seeming like more of an anxiety filled situation for me and it's not even something that I remotely want to be apart of anymore. Sorry, I just needed to rant but does anyone have any advice? I would really like to not have to plan it myself because when I had to plan my own baby shower, everyone got angry with me but nobody wanted to help with it when I asked for help. So just really struggling here.