Hey ladies, how do you decide who gets invited to your bridal shower? My mother has asked to throw my shower (it's not until next summer) and she asked for a list of women I would like to attend. My FH has a lot of women in his family (they're Italian) and they're all very close. Well, I asked my mom if I invite all of the women invited to the wedding and she said, "No, that would be like 80 women"... But I don't know what standards to use to decide who to invite and who to just invite to the wedding. It seems kinda rude to me to invite someone to the wedding and not the shower or to the shower and not the wedding. Any suggestions?
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