Hi! I’m starting to plan my shower and had a few questions. My FMIL and FSIL (also bridesmaid) both live out of state. Are they expected to come? They could potentially drive (12 hour drive)… but probably would need to fly. My mom thinks it would be rude of them not to come, but I’m curious what everyone else thinks? Typically at friends showers the MIL is always there, but curious to how it works when my finance’s family lives out of state. I would obviously invite them no matter what. Also, do I invite fiancés aunts as well - even if we aren’t close?
Thanks so much!
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