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Anna
Beginner October 2020

Bridal shower gifts received beforehand

Anna, on May 20, 2021 at 10:32 PM Posted in Parties and Events 0 9
So what does everyone do with the gifts that come in the mail beforehand. Do you open them? Wait? I headed someone say they displayed them at the shower.

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Latest activity by Sarah, on May 21, 2021 at 8:08 PM
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    Master July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    I just wrote a thank you note right away and sent it out. I did not bring the gifts to the shower. Usually guests send the shower gift because they either don't want anyone to have to lug it around or they aren't able to make it but still want to give a gift.
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  • Elizabeth
    Dedicated August 2021
    Elizabeth ·
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    I opened them right away! (Especially because my fiance really doesn't care about new dish sets or cooking equipment, so I didn't need to wait for him). It seems kind of silly to lug them to the shower. But do whatever you're most comfortable with! If you'd rather wait and open them at the shower, that's totally up to you!
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    Super June 2021
    Melanie ·
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    I opened them right away and sent thank you cards to let the person know I received it. Something along the lines of "Thank you for your gift! FH and I will use it for XYZ. Looking forward to celebrating with you at the shower"
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  • Krista
    Dedicated April 2020
    Krista ·
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    If you open them now you get a head start on thank you cards and at the shower before you start opening gifts say a generic thank you to everyone who sent things to your home so they are included on the actual day.
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    Lady ·
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    Open them and send a thank you ASAP. I think it's silly to bring opened gifts to a shower, but if the gift giver is going to attend the shower, it's nice to acknowledge in front of everyone what they got for you (just like you do for the gifts you're opening there).

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  • Hanna
    VIP June 2019
    Hanna ·
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    I just opened them right away and sent thank you notes promptly.

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    Devoted August 2020
    Tina ·
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    I waited to open them. Since my shower wasn’t normal it was virtual. I opened on screen the what gifts I even got.
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    Judith ·
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    Some people display gifts, most do not display wedding gifts, only those at the shower. It depends on those in area, and whether it is thought to be rudely showing off, ora nicer thing. I would find that out locally. I can only think of once in a huge number of weddings in my area with wedding gifts on display. But when I lived in a much more upscale are, showing off stuff was a regular ( and much laughed at) thing.
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  • Sarah
    Super August 2021
    Sarah ·
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    I'm so glad someone else posted about this, I'm struggling with this right now as we've recieved 2 gifts in the mail this week lol. Its so confusing though, because the person who sent them said they are coming to the shower.
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