Bridal shower help

I feel your pain on this. My MOH is in a different state, along with my sisters. My other BM lives locally. FH's family is all out of state. So I dont see a bridal shower or bachelorette party in my future.

You only get one if someone offers to throw it for you - you don't throw a gift giving party for yourself. It sounds like maybe you won't be having one, and you're ok with that. You dont' have to have one.

Typically, your bridal party or family throws your shower for you. Maybe mention it to your mom, MOH, or other bridesmaids to see if they have any plans. I don't think there really has to be a 90 day rule. Our wedding is in March, and we are doing our shower in November just because that month worked out the best for us. I've been to some showers that are only a few weeks before. As far as where to have it, maybe call around at local community centers to see if they allow rentals or maybe one of your bridesmaids or family members can host it. My friend, Sarah, had hers at a family friend's house and it was great!

I've seen bridal showers hosted in the party room of a restaurant also.

Anyone who wants to host it for you can do that. There is no specific time frame for when it should happen--anytime before the wedding. Most people try to plan it for a couple of months before, depending on everyone's schedule.

If you don't want a shower, you don't have to have one. Just make sure you tell your mom and BMs you don't want one, in case they are planning to surprise you with one.

As mentioned, it's free game whoever wants to throw a shower. As long as it's not you planning it, anyone can do it!